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Having low confidence feels like having a weakness in today’s age. In this time of virality, it seems like having low confidence not only destroys opportunities for you but also screams how imperfect and problematic your life is. It’s like confidence is supposed to be a magical potion, that solves all problems of your life.  Everyone wants to be confident 24/7 . And why not! I mean, if you can get a raise, talk to that cute girl(or guy), or walk like Peter Parker in Spiderman 3, because of having not low confidence , then why the hell not?  Look at that swagger!   But, how much we want, we can’t be confident all the time. And it’s okay to have low confidence from time to time. Here’s why: REASONS TO REMEMBER  Low confidence = lack of feeling confident temporarily Confidence gets hammered in tough competition Acceptance of imperfection brings peace of mind L ow confidence = lack of feeling confident temporarily Remember feelings? Yea...

  How To Be Confident When You Have No Confidence Remember the time when you wanted to feel confident, only to freeze and blabber? Remember the time when you wanted to say hi to the cute girl, but you found your legs behaving like concrete slabs? Or the time before facing an interview, monologuing over and over about "You can do it", only to bomb in the actual interview?  These are all the times we wanted to have some confidence. Confidence. Ahh, that word. A word that feels like a magical solution. A potion that would maximize your esteem. Without confidence, everything feels so bleak.  Being low-confident feels like a weakness. Everyone wants to be confident 24/7 .  And why not! I mean, if you can get a raise, talk to that cute girl(or guy), or walk like Peter Parker in Spider-Man 3 because of being confident , then why the hell not?  Look at that swagger!   Thing is, however we want to be eternally confident, reality won't allow that. We won't...