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Be happy: Good or Terrible Advice?

Happiness is like finding something that makes everything super easy for life.  We all just want to be happy  because it seems like people who are always happy, found permanent inner peace. But  the problem with happiness  is, it doesn’t stay permanent. Table of Content How do you “be happy”? Is “Being Happy” really that simple? Conclusion How do you “be happy”? Or, In other words, how do you get happiness? What makes you happy?  Now I can’t answer these questions for you. Because clearly, they’ll differ from people to people. I can only answer for myself. Like, I find happiness when I do something that scares me, I find happiness by sharing my thinking with all of you. Sometimes I find happiness by just surfing the web, and sometimes I find happiness in serenity. Again sometimes I find it among other people.  The point is, happiness may come from any type of situation. Happiness is an emotion. And ...

Impress people? No, you should stop that now.

“ How to Impress People ? “, did you ever search this phrase on the web? Well, if you do, then high 5! I used to do that too. You see, I was a complete people pleaser. I always wanted to impress people . If someone disliked me, I used to become very upset. In some cases, I even asked them about the reason for disliking me. Well, they used to give me vague answers, and I tried to fit in the image which would attract them. I felt like a loser. I felt like a used person. Everywhere I used to go, I felt like people are constantly judging me, laughing at me. On the other hand, I used to be dependent on others too much. I always took decisions based on what others thought. And deep inside, I felt like a powerless undeserving kid. I felt like the trashiest person in the world. So, if you relate to this too, then you are not alone my friend. Let’s talk about it: Table of Contents Why We Want To Impress People Why “ Impress People” To Get Validation Is An Inefficient Way...