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Nowadays when I surf social media I get a lot of statuses about fake friends. My wall gets rumbled by cheesy fake friends quotes. It seems like everyone is becoming selfish, how “real love” or “real friendship” is becoming so rare and most importantly how ‘fake friends’ are becoming our only friends. Now, for me, friendship is a relationship where there is a minimal amount of selfishness is involved. We see friends who celebrate fifty years of friendship. We see friends who sacrifice themselves for their friends. But still, it seems like in our own lives, we don’t get the same treatment from our friends that we see in other’s lives. We begin to get bitter about our friends, we begin to complain about how life is so unfair and we only have fake friends. So, what’s the issue here? Me And My Bois Judging Other Table of Contents Life happens Jealousy Miscommunication In the end only a few matters Life happens This is the most important, simplest, and rather boring rea...

Sometimes it makes me think that if there were no emotions in our lives, what would happen? Yeah, apart from being a boring robot, we may live a life with no pain, no strings attached, and overall a life without any headaches. Right? Table of Content An Emotionless World How To Treat Emotions An Emotionless World I mean just think about it. The sheer amount of mental pain we get every time we screw up, it’s all because we can feel. If they don’t exist in the first place, well maybe we may not feel any pain also. But here comes another contradictory thing, if we feel pain, because of our emotions, then we also feel happiness . (mind= blown) The fact is emotions are part of our lives and they will always be there in our lives. We take emotions like something that has come from the sky, glorify it and make them overrated. Then something bad but kind of expected happens. We rant, scream, cry. We question ourselves that why we are feeling (terrible, disgusted, embarrassed, *inse...

Happiness is like finding something that makes everything super easy for life.  We all just want to be happy  because it seems like people who are always happy, found permanent inner peace. But  the problem with happiness  is, it doesn’t stay permanent. Table of Content How do you “be happy”? Is “Being Happy” really that simple? Conclusion How do you “be happy”? Or, In other words, how do you get happiness? What makes you happy?  Now I can’t answer these questions for you. Because clearly, they’ll differ from people to people. I can only answer for myself. Like, I find happiness when I do something that scares me, I find happiness by sharing my thinking with all of you. Sometimes I find happiness by just surfing the web, and sometimes I find happiness in serenity. Again sometimes I find it among other people.  The point is, happiness may come from any type of situation. Happiness is an emotion. And ...

“ How to Impress People ? “, did you ever search this phrase on the web? Well, if you do, then high 5! I used to do that too. You see, I was a complete people pleaser. I always wanted to impress people . If someone disliked me, I used to become very upset. In some cases, I even asked them about the reason for disliking me. Well, they used to give me vague answers, and I tried to fit in the image which would attract them. I felt like a loser. I felt like a used person. Everywhere I used to go, I felt like people are constantly judging me, laughing at me. On the other hand, I used to be dependent on others too much. I always took decisions based on what others thought. And deep inside, I felt like a powerless undeserving kid. I felt like the trashiest person in the world. So, if you relate to this too, then you are not alone my friend. Let’s talk about it: Table of Contents Why We Want To Impress People Why “ Impress People” To Get Validation Is An Inefficient Way...

Having low confidence feels like having a weakness in today’s age. In this time of virality, it seems like having low confidence not only destroys opportunities for you but also screams how imperfect and problematic your life is. It’s like confidence is supposed to be a magical potion, that solves all problems of your life.  Everyone wants to be confident 24/7 . And why not! I mean, if you can get a raise, talk to that cute girl(or guy), or walk like Peter Parker in Spiderman 3, because of having not low confidence , then why the hell not?  Look at that swagger!   But, how much we want, we can’t be confident all the time. And it’s okay to have low confidence from time to time. Here’s why: REASONS TO REMEMBER  Low confidence = lack of feeling confident temporarily Confidence gets hammered in tough competition Acceptance of imperfection brings peace of mind L ow confidence = lack of feeling confident temporarily Remember feelings? Yea...

  How To Be Confident When You Have No Confidence Remember the time when you wanted to feel confident, only to freeze and blabber? Remember the time when you wanted to say hi to the cute girl, but you found your legs behaving like concrete slabs? Or the time before facing an interview, monologuing over and over about "You can do it", only to bomb in the actual interview?  These are all the times we wanted to have some confidence. Confidence. Ahh, that word. A word that feels like a magical solution. A potion that would maximize your esteem. Without confidence, everything feels so bleak.  Being low-confident feels like a weakness. Everyone wants to be confident 24/7 .  And why not! I mean, if you can get a raise, talk to that cute girl(or guy), or walk like Peter Parker in Spider-Man 3 because of being confident , then why the hell not?  Look at that swagger!   Thing is, however we want to be eternally confident, reality won't allow that. We won't...